Insecure Writers Support Group
Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!
Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer – aim for a dozen new people each time. Be sure to link to this page and display the badge in your post.
Let’s rock the neurotic writing world!
Our Twitter hashtag is #IWSG
The awesome co-hosts for the January posting of the IWSG are: http://lgkeltner.blogspot.com http://dencovey.blogspot.com http://www.salarsenbooks.com http://www.jqrose.com http://hogwartssabbatical.blogspot.com http://www.writer-in-transit.co.za
Writing Wednesday
The Storm Before the Calm
The storm is what I’m calling these last few weeks before the release of my second book, The Stranger In My Recliner. Review Copies have been mailed, media pitches have been made and scheduling is underway, press releases have been created, event requests and scheduling are still underway, party plans are in process, essays are being written, I’m writing guest posts and so much more. Once release day arrives all will be calm. Nothing actually happens on release day. I am looking forward to the one day of calm.
I’m more than insecure. I’m seriously scared. You know the usual voices in our writer heads, “everyone will hate it” “you suck” and on and on. I know this is ridiculous and a waste of energy but we all feel this way, right?
I’m sad too, because this weekend is the anniversary of my dad’s death and he is not here to cheer me on.
As insecure as I am feeling I am also extremely excited. I know Sophie is so proud to finally have her story told and I feel blessed to be the one that gets to tell it.
As much as I love being curled up, cozy and warm with my laptop I really do love getting out and participating in author events and meeting new people. It’s the getting there that’s tough. What will I wear, will people show up?
I’m good at convincing people to destroy the negative tapes they play in their head’s. I need to trust my own advice.
Happy New Year Everyone, Let’s Rock It!
Happy Writing,
Doreen
PS-I would love if you would consider entering the Goodreads Contest and sharing it, TY xxxooo
https://www.goodreads.com/giveaway/enter_choose_address/168029-the-stranger-in-my-recliner
37 thoughts on “The Storm Before The Calm…”
Thinking of you as the anniversary of your dad’s death approaches, they don’t ever seem to get any easier.
Love the storm before the calm – thanks for taking us on this journey with you, it is very exciting to watch it unfold!
I’m sorry your still feeling your loss. It must be tough. Time heals, so does writing. 🙂
Anna from elements of emaginette
What an exciting time! I hear from my published friends that planning signing events with other authors is the way to go. Many I know do not do single author events at all if they can help it. It sounds like you are on the right track with everything with your release. I think the anxiety comes with the territory, but it sounds like you are managing well 🙂
Here’s my January IWSG post
Sounds like you’ve got a great handle on preparations. Good luck with the release!
Such a bittersweet time with your upcoming release and the anniversary of your father’s death. He sounds like he was a wonderful supporter of yours. I’m so very sorry for your loss.
Good advice that you offer – destroy the negative tapes in your head. Something I’ll try to keep in mind for myself.
Destroying those tapes becomes a habit.
I think the second book is that point at which all authors are scared. First book, you go blindly forward thinking you can charm the masses. Second book you know better and wonder if anyone will like it. I think once you get past that point and realize there’s an audience who will love you work, regardless that you really sprout your authorial wings.
That is so right!
Congrats on the new book. I hope you have a wonderful time at your book events. Entered your giveaway. If you would like to appear in my Author Spotlight on my website just let me know. You contact me at my site or junetasblog@gmail.com.
Happy New Years and Much Success
Juneta @ Writer’s Gambit
Thank you so much Juneta, I would love that!
What an exciting time for you! I hope it all goes well and that your book release is a smashing success. 🙂 Happy New Year!
Thank you so much Melissa.
Boy, do I relate!!! I’m releasing my book in late March and have been going through the same flurry of activity…and all the same nervousness.
Best of luck to you, and congratulations on getting this far! I’m excited for you.
Congratulations and best wishes to you Nadine, it is all so exciting!
I’m very excited for you. It’s a huge achievement and I am behind you 100%!
Thank you so much Carol!
Good luck!
Thank you Heather.
Yay Doreen!!! So very happy for you. I wish you much success with your new book.
Thank you Helene. I cannot wait to read your book!
Insecurity paired with excitement is one of the most exhilarating feeling! Enjoy it! And be sure to mix in a huge dollop of PROUD, too, as you should be so very proud of yourself. Congratulations and best wishes as you ride out the storm! Good luck with the book. You’re an inspiration. ♥
Thank you so much, Lisa!
That’s a great quote. I’m going to have to print that out and paste it on my computer. So excited about your book — can’t wait to read it!
That quote is one of my favorites.
Isn’t it so much easier to give advice than to take your own? “Destroy the negative tapes in your head.” There, I gave it back to you…maybe that’ll work. Why, oh why, must we all feel so insecure?? Does it go with being a writer? I’m afraid so.
It really is!
So excited for you, and to help you promote your book. I already know you’re a great writer because of what you shared during the A to Z Challenge last year. Also, you’re right, you have given a voice to Sophie. So proud of you!!!!
Thank you so much Mary, I really appreciate it!
I know just what you mean, so much easier to give other people advice than take one’s own. Good luck with the release of your book and going out and meeting people and I am sure your dad is very proud of you.
It sure is.
I don’t know if I would have the courage to attend a book signing, so that alone shows me how courageous you are. I wish you a lot of success with your latest endeavor, and I’m sorry your dad is not there to share it with you!
I was terrified of book signings but I love them now.
I can’t wait to read it. I know it will be great!
Thank you Toni! I am looking forward to reading your next book too!
How incredibly exciting! That stage is a killer, all the work behind the scenes with the hopes of success. I’m sure your dad is still cheering you on, even if you can’t see him. This is going to be an amazing book launch.
Thank you so much Crystal! I am getting excited.
So sorry to hear about your dad, but congratulations on your launch! Those feelings are normal, and we all get them, but you will kill it, Doreen. I know you will!
Go out there and sell your heart out!